By Mustapha Salisu
A security analyst, Ambassador Abdullahi Bakoji Adamu, has cautioned Nigerians to remain vigilant against potential threats from within their families, stressing that relationships should not blind individuals to security realities.
In a security advisory titled “Family Threat Awareness”, Adamu noted that global criminological studies have shown that more than half of serious crimes, including murder, assault, abuse, and kidnapping are committed by people known to the victims.
He emphasized that in security assessment, behaviour, not relationship, determines risk. “Trust does not eliminate threat; behaviour reveals it,” he warned.
The analyst urged families not to dismiss warning signs such as sudden behavioural changes, verbal threats, or a history of violence. He noted that consistent anger, social withdrawal, and hate-filled expressions often precede violent actions.
Adamu also highlighted the need to limit access to sensitive household information, including family movement patterns, security arrangements, and travel schedules. According to him, “Information equals opportunity,” and unrestricted access increases vulnerability.
He advised families to establish clear boundaries and not allow sentiments or shame to prevent them from taking preventive measures. “Protecting a criminal because of family ties is not loyalty, it is a severe security risk,” he said.
The advisory further underscored the importance of reporting threats early to relevant authorities, stressing that “reporting is prevention, not betrayal.” Adamu urged community and religious leaders to play active roles in addressing early warning signs before they escalate.
The analyst particularly warned about the growing trend of insider-facilitated kidnapping, where relatives or trusted insiders aid external criminals by sharing information or providing access. He linked such acts to jealousy, financial desperation, or drug influence.
He advised Nigerians to avoid publicizing travel plans, displaying wealth without security measures, and entertaining unnecessary inquiries about personal details. “Privacy is protection, not deception,” he stated.
Concluding his message, Ambassador Adamu called for a balance of knowledge, prayer, and clear boundaries in maintaining family security. “Vigilance is not fear negligence is the real danger,” he said, praying for divine protection against internal threats.